What to do?

I am in a total point of confusion at the moments.  Or maybe it's just because I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings.  Thanksgiving is coming up and I have to decide what I am going to do.  My dad wants me to go to his house and my mom wants me to come to the family dinner at my aunt and uncle's house.  I really want to go to the big shindig at my aunt and uncle's because I will be seeing the entire extremely large family of mine.  At the same time I don't want to hurt my dad and step-mom's feelings.  I think I might just do the shindig in Bay City and then just go to my dad's later in the weekend.  Maybe that will please everyone.